There is a kind of professional exhaustion that cannot be solved with better tools.

The Art of High-Performance Leadership Without Burnout, by Paige McPheely.

#1 Amazon New Release · Amazon Best Seller

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Released October 27, 2026

Built to Breathe: The Art of High-Performance Leadership Without Burnout, by Paige McPheely

The breath cycle

The book is built on a simple cycle.

We take work in, we hold it, and at some point it should leave our hands. Most of us are good at the first two and skip the third.

A pair of lungs drawn as a tree, the right side full and green, the left side bare and shedding its leaves
  1. Inhale

    The goalpost keeps shifting farther away, even as we inch forward.

  2. Hold

    Our role is to be the net, catching what others miss before it slips through.

  3. Exhale

    We delegated, set boundaries, and downloaded the apps, but none of it lasted.

The five levers

The system that got us here will not carry us forward.

The book calls them the five levers: trusted support, honest perspective, clear rhythms, intentional systems, and thoughtful use of technology. Each one changes something around us rather than asking more of us. We can start with any of them today, and getting one in place usually makes the rest easier.

Lever 1 — Trusted Support

Every hour spent on work that someone else could own is an hour not spent on the work that only we can do.

When was the last time you were away from work for a full day and did not check in?

Start hereList ten things you do each week that require your involvement but not your judgment.

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Lever 2 — Honest Perspective

When we have even one or two people we can think out loud with, we make better decisions and bear the weight of leadership feeling less alone.

When was the last time someone disagreed with you openly about a decision you had already made?

Start hereBlock one conversation this week with someone outside your team whose judgment you trust.

Lever 3 — Clear Rhythms

Our goal is to create enough structure so that it is clear, to us and the people around us, where our attention belongs.

If asked right now, could the people around you describe where your attention is this week and when you are available?

Start hereProtect one morning block for your most demanding work, and tell your team it exists.

Lever 4 — Intentional Systems

A leader who spends two hours defining which decisions require their input, and which don't, removes themselves from dozens of future decisions.

How did it go the last time you took a week off?

Start hereWrite down the decisions your team waits on you for that they could make themselves.

Lever 5 — Thoughtful Use of Technology

When we outsource our decision-making to a tool, we also outsource our understanding of why decisions are made.

How many tools have you adopted in the last year, and how many of them reduced the number of things requiring your attention?

Start herePick the last tool you adopted and ask whether it reduced the number of things that need your attention.

You don’t have to keep doing it all. Built to breathe, not just to perform. 

About the author

Paige McPheely

Paige McPheely is the author of Built to Breathe, a #1 Amazon New Release and Amazon Best Seller. She founded Base, which pairs leaders with dedicated executive assistants, and more than a decade of working alongside those founders and executives is where most of this book comes from. She lives in Valencia, Spain, with her husband and their three sons.

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Praise for Built to Breathe

A candid, empathetic framework for professional sustainability.
Kirkus Reviews
Paige McPheely has written a wise and deeply important book for driven people who have learned to endure more than they should. Built to Breathe challenges the false choice between ambition and wellbeing, showing that we do not need to want less in order to live more fully. Through personal insight and practical wisdom, Paige reminds us that sustainable leadership is not about holding everything together; it is about creating the conditions that allow us, and those around us, to breathe, grow, and flourish.
Tal Ben-ShaharFounder, Happiness Studies Academy
Built to Breathe identifies the silent crisis of modern leadership: a professional exhaustion that better tools will never solve. Paige McPheely challenges the illusion that success must hurt to count, offering permission to lead with clarity instead of frenetic motion. Built to Breathe is an invaluable guide for those who want to live more fully without wanting less out of life.
Todd HenryAuthor of Die Empty
Conventional wisdom says you can't build a breakout career without breaking yourself. In Built to Breathe, Paige shows you how to build better. I've sat across the board table from her and marveled at how she runs hard without running herself into the ground. The tenets in this book aren't self-care platitudes. They're the working methods of leaders who want to build a life that allows them to go the distance.
Kristian AndersenCo-founder & General Partner, High Alpha
We are exhausted. The better we get at our calendars, the more our calendars win. Paige knows the gauntlet and shares a calmer way through. I wish Built to Breathe existed when I was running my company.
Max YoderAuthor of Do Better Work and Co-founder of Lessonly
Many leadership books focus on what and why to delegate. Built to Breathe tackles something much harder: why successful leaders struggle to let go in the first place. If you're serious about untangling your identity and self-worth from your work, this book is for you. Built to Breathe gives leaders permission to exhale without sacrificing their ambition or long-term success. Letting go isn't the opposite of great leadership; it's what makes it possible.
Hallie WarnerBook Strategist & Author of The Founder & The Force Multiplier
High performers in the workplace can be among the last to truly care for themselves, and can fail to see how when they do it is good for everyone and everything around them. Paige has written a wonderful book on the why, what, and how of all of this, backed up by over a decade of supporting leaders through her own enterprise.
Dave BlanchardCo-Founder & CEO, Praxis

Book details

Format
Hardcover
Trim size
5.5 x 8.5 inches
Pages
175
Publication
27 October 2026
Retail price
$30.95 USD
ISBN
978-1-64687-310-4
Distribution
Simon & Schuster